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Ainrev
12-21-2009, 03:36 AM
My great grandma died Dec. 17, 2009 in North Carolina, USA. She was 92 I think... She had raised me a few days here and there in my younger years. I miss her... not her creepy, nasty house. Or her racist comments for everything (grandma lived in the projects... wasn't the projects when she moved there).

I'm gonna miss her... http://dothackportal.com/forums/images/smilies2/frown.png

Antenora
12-21-2009, 10:15 PM
Losing people you care about is always hard. I've lost so many family members throughout my life and it never gets any easier. It's probably a big part of the reason I absolutely refuse to make close friends or get attached to anybody anymore. I'm sorry for your loss. I hope things get better for you.

Ryokushin
12-21-2009, 11:33 PM
Depends on who you are. Everyone who's died in my family I've never really missed, or cried for. Probably is kind of stupid that I haven't, but it's who I am. I don't know what most people would say at this point. I'm the kind of person who doesn't know what to say. I get over things by joking. But most people don't. So the best thing that I have to say would probably be that life sucks. It gets harder as you live longer. Yeah...that's about it. Good luck, buddy.

.hack,haseo
12-22-2009, 05:16 AM
Sorry for ur loss I also lost my great grandmother this year !It really hurts!!!My great grandmother was put in a wheel chair so everyone in my family was to tend to her but not many people would on the weekends I would take care of her!So I took it really hard.To lose someone that was close and frail and precious to u makes u weak in many ways but we stay strong through there kind and loveing memory!!!So when ur sad think of what that person did that made u smile and smile for that person!

Zymbaline
12-22-2009, 06:15 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss. I hate it when people die. It feels so unreal.

Mourn
12-23-2009, 07:36 PM
You have my condolences. I haven't cried for anyone in the family who died, or close friends or anything like that. I try not to, as I hate the feeling. It's the worst when they were an important or every day part of your life, as something just feels so... I don't know how to describe it. My dog died a week ago and it's been so wierd not seeing him in the family room or the back yard, or filling his watering dish and feeding him. Everyone in my family but me has avoided the back yard since he died. I still fill his watering dish occasionally.

I don't know how to cope with the loss of a close human relative. Again, you have my condolences.

Ainrev
12-25-2009, 03:35 AM
It hit grandma pretty hard. I saw her yesterday, and she looked so terrible. She hasn't been taking care of herself.

Me? I'm alright. I haven't cried yet for her... but it probably just hasn't hit me still. I'm a pretty big crybaby inside. Rough edges with a soft, squishy inside; thats me!